Simmer Down
It's widely known by most people in my orbit that the topic of Italy occupies many cracks and crevasses of my brain and has since my first visit in October 2012. My evergreen Italian daydream isn't about being unhappy with where I live, nor is it a desire to leave my life behind in exchange for greener grass. But the undeniable magnetism I feel toward Italy does color the lens through which I view my life, specifically its lifestyle and culture. I love how Italians live. I love what they value. I love how they see the world. My curiosity to understand whether I can emulate any of that hasn't waned in the last 13 years since I saw it and felt it first-hand. To be clear, I know I will never experience life in America as an Italian would experience life in Italy. The big rocks that represent our differences (boulders, really) are immovable and forever ingrained in our respective countries' way of existing. However, the tiny pebbles that represent everyday habits, rituals,...